oh dear what to do.....

[penelope]

I have an insanely jealous boyfriend who thinks that if I am just talking to a person, a guy, I am flirting.
He makes all these sarcastic remarks about some guy looking at me or liking me or I like them back.
He thinks if I am emailing or posting things on any chat boards they are to pick up men.
If I am flying, he thinks I am flirting.
I think I know the answer, and it is to dump his stupid ass.
after 2 yrs and moving in to his pad, it just got worse and worse. is there any other suggestions?
I'm tired

[Dr. Loverboi]

penelope,

From reading this post, it appears that your boyfriend is insecure and lacking the confidence of knowing that you love and are committed to him. Men who are secure in their relationships have that confidence, and don't bother worrying about those kinds of issues, particularly when their ladies have communicated it properly to them.

If you love him, and you haven't told or shown him lately, then do so. Maybe this is all he needs to build up and boost his confidence level.

If you have done this repeatedly, and you can't reason with him concerning the issue, then it sounds like you need to end the relationship.

Whether you stay in the relationship, or break up with him, please do be careful. If you say that the situation has worsened, who knows to what extent it could finally end up. Jealousy has the potential of turning into anger :mad_2: at any time.

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[Karen 737]

<font color="pink"> "You're gonna blink, and you'll be 80 and alone in a caftan with a lap full of catnip saying "Here, kitty, kitty, kitty." Honey put him on the train to Dumpsville stopping at Heartbreak Town, Hurt City and Ha Ha Land! Honey put the sex back into heterosexual and find a decent boyfriend that sees you for the lovely person you are and not Ms. Slutty McSlut!" </font color>

[Doc._K_N_Owitall]

" insanely jealous " ... not good !
Many different men treat women many different ways.
I always hear from Oprah: He treats you this way cause you let him get away with it.
So you have to take a stand, no matter how difficult.

To be honest, it sounds like you have already made up your mind to just break up.
It seems like you're just looking for confirmation from your friends.
Nothing wrong with that.
Here it is ......... confirmed !!!

Men almost never change just because someone tells them to.
Be sure to explain you have not found someone else,
just that he has become impossible to live with.

It will be so nice when you find someone who is happy to see you.
Instead of wondering what you did wrong.

I wish you strength and courage for the short term relational stress,
and luck, zest and energy for setting up a new life for yourself filled with fun.


Doctor Kevin Niles Owitall.

12 years of dissecting small animals
10 years of only listening to females (they didn't want more)
4.5 years producer at the Harpo studios
3 months at the West Virginia U. of Sociology
A home study course in Neural Biology
6 months .. ehm .. observation .. in the Briant mental health facility
An honorary doctorate in psychiatry from my buddy Louis in Costa Rica </font color>

[penelope]

Yes, I have tried to convey this to him that he is thinking too much. I tried to throw the same comments he makes to me back at him.
i.e. if I look behind him "who are you checking out now?"
and I will do the same back to him.
I must have confused him because now he thinks I'm the insecure one.
I don't think I can even socialize with a guy without having to worry what he would think.
I have constatnly did things for him,
told him I love him,
yet he still continues to do the same thing.
I'm tired,
I'm strained,
what do you do with an old dog that don't seem to want to learn or listen?

[Dr. Loverboi]

You cut that dog's leash, and move on.

You just can't keep straining yourself like this. You have tried to get him to understand, yet he still will not change. Therefore, it's time for you to change boyfriends, in my opinion.

I would also like to wish you much strength and positive energy as you make this change, and much happiness as you seek and find the man of your dreams. :smile_2:

[Dr._Playmate]

Penelope! LOVE the name! I'm going to agree with Loverboi... A jealous boyfriend is not worth your time and energy. Believe me, I know what it's like, being in this industry! You will find someone who will trust you, no matter what.

Dr. Penelope Playmate

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[Dr. Loverboi]

So what is it like being in the industry? I don't work in it, I only date people from it. :grin:

[Dr._Playmate]

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I only date people from it.



<font color="purple">Then you should know all that cums with the business. :grin: After all, you are dating Brande.

Seriously though, the industry's great, albeit a little tiring at times... There are many perks to the business once you get to know the ins and outs.

Dr. Penelope Playmate </font color>

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[Dr. Loverboi]

Brande doesn't have time to "talk shop" with me after she gets in from work. Well, she doesn't talk about it, she shows me what her day was like. :grin:

[Karen 737]

<font color="deeppink">
Honey are you still doing the whole "Playboy" thing?
Aren't you getting a bit old for it, I mean how long was it since we made that video in Las Vegas?
So let me give a question only you can answer ... is 60 sexy?
You know I'm just jealous.
Kisses
Kisses </font color>

[Karen 737]

<font color="deeppink">
Going back to the "Oh What to do?" I need your advice.
My maid wants to go home for New Year, because I didn't let her go home for Christmas.
I used my gruff exterior by saying Rosario, let me get this straight. You want to take some time off to spend with your family? Uh-huh. Ok. Yeah, good idea. Let me get on the horn right now to Air Fat Chance. Yeah, they probably got a buzzard taking off out of LaGuardia any minute now." But I can't cook or clean or ... well do anything in the house without her?
What can I do?
Kisses </font color>

[Dr._Playmate]

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Honey are you still doing the whole "Playboy" thing? Aren't you getting a bit old for it, I mean how long was it since we made that video in Las Vegas?


<font color="purple">
Karen sweetie, how old do you think I am? Hon, I'm only heading towards 30! I was 14 when we made that video, thanks to fake ID and a killer rack (as you would say).

So yes... I still don the bunnysuit... :wink_2:

Dr. Penny Playmate </font color>

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[Dr._Playmate]

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But I can't cook or clean or ... well do anything in the house without her? What can I do?



<font color="purple">Why don't you ask Jetboy? Have you seen his place? Immaculate....

Dr. Penny Playmate</font color>

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[Karen 737]

<font color="deeppink">
You were 14, good lord honey, you had, and I'm sure you still have a rack to die for!
I mean, lord those scenes were rocking my world and my pants!
Anyway, what do you think I should do with my maid?
Maybe I should send her back to ... ... I can't remember where and we can go back to LV for a night on the town like the good ole days!
Kisses </font color>

[Dr. Loverboi]

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Anyway, what do you think I should do with my maid?




Bring her with you. Don't you need someone to fetch drinks for you?

[Karen 737]

<font color="deeppink">
Good idea honey!
Besides, who else would be there to hose me out of bed on a morning!
Do you wanna come/cum poodle with us?
You know it would be fun, we'd be re-living 19(was it 85?) all over again?
Dr. Playmate, what was the film called?
Was it Girls Gone Wild that I starred in with you or My Best Friend's Tush?
Kisses
</font color>

[Dr. Loverboi]

I'd be honoured to join you two and help you relive old times. :grin:

[Dr._Playmate]

<font color="purple">Sure I'll cum. Just let me check my sched with Hef first...

I thought it was called Fly Bi Night...

Dr. Penny Playmate </font color>

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[Karen 737]

<font color="deeppink">
Possibly!
We'll have to rent it, take Loverboi back to the hotel room ... and do Las Vegas, and each other like they've never been done before! </font color>

[Dr. Loverboi]

Sounds like a plan to me. :grin: